tumblrbot asked: WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER WHEN YOU ARE IN A BAD MOOD?
I wish I knew. :) I’m pretty bad at getting out of a bad mood - but if I had to TRY, I would go online and read articles relating to what I’m stressed out about. (Sometimes it means reading astrology or tarot readings to get some perspective that this is only a phase!)
I also listen to good music - my favourite is Coldplay and U2. If I am able to I try to watch a good movie. I also try to eat something delicious i.e. indulge myself by having an expensive meal or a bar of good chocolate.
I take a warm shower (with plenty of my priciest shampoo and soap) and then massage myself with a good body oil.
Of course, none of this really works. It just helps distract me. Ultimately only prayer and self-beliefs (or deluding myself that things will turn out right!) helps…
I like you so much because you DON’T remind me of anyone…
You’re something new, something I’ve never had, and something I definitely wanna have.

A man will love a woman for who she is. A boy will love a girl for what she looks like.
Just watched some more videos of this guy on youtube that in my opinion gives the best advice ever.. He’s a motivational speaker and these two videos on building a perfect relationship is probably the most fucking brilliant 20 minutes of common sense, great advice and logic..
PART 1 - …
I’m a girl and I know how hard it is to fit in. Everyday I see pictures of skinny girls with beautiful long hair and nice clothes. They seem to be perfect. We girls, are always complaining about how we have to work so hard to fit in. Always complaining about doing make up and doing our hair. The…
Living a GOOD Life without Love
I’m beginning to accept what is only inevitable. I may never find that perfect someone. And since my philosophy has always been:
Find that “True love”, or “Screw love”,
I guess it means I’ll be screwing the idea of being in a relationship. And if that holds true, I believe I’ll have an excess capacity problem where my brain will have to figure out how to distract my heart from depression (unfortunately, without an idealistic relationship to focus it’s affections on, the heart will most likely go into self-destruct mode).
And therein lies the secret to my happiness for the remaining 50 years of my life. Work well, meditate, exercise, entertain myself, eat/live/breathe healthy, read, write, do social work, make good friends, nurture my extended family with wisdom, hone my artistic and dancing skills and nourish my mind, body and soul. The heart, I’m afraid, will have to learn to live without love. And if my experiment is successful I will proudly know for a fact that love has nothing to do with happiness.
Or at least far, far less than our hormonal, angsty, nervous 20-something-self believes… :)
Hopefully the world will believe me too…



